whose arms would I run and fall into
if I were drunk
in a room with everyone
I have ever loved.
If you’re in a serious relationship at my age you’re most likely wanting to spend the rest of your life with this person (unless you date for fun) and it doesn’t mean you’re going to, but that’s the goal. I personally don’t date anyone I couldn’t see myself with for a long time. If you’re wanting to spend the rest of your life with this person, then you need to be able to connect with them on all different levels, and yes, sex is one of them. Intimacy is important. It means different things to different people. People express it in a variety of ways. And if you can’t connect with someone on an intimate level, then I truly believe you aren’t going to last. Our souls have desires, and our physical bodies have desires as well. There’s a balance between the two, but regardless they need to be met. Stop looking at sex as this horrible, scary, bad thing. Being intimate with someone is special when you have the right connection. But if you don’t believe that, that’s fine. I’m not trying to change your opinion.
I’m really happy to say that I am once back on track with my healthy diet, I gained 5 pounds over summer but I recently lost 9 pounds in the last two weeks and I am beyond proud of myself and that’s just because of healthy dieting (no exercises) but I am starting to get off my butt and go to the gym again, no time to waste just keep grinding!